{"id":6360,"date":"2024-12-30T16:39:02","date_gmt":"2024-12-30T09:39:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/?p=6360"},"modified":"2024-12-30T16:39:02","modified_gmt":"2024-12-30T09:39:02","slug":"cirkin-ebeveynlerin-guzel-cocuklari-doguruyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/cirkin-ebeveynlerin-guzel-cocuklari-doguruyor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7irkin Ebeveynlerin G\u00fczel \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 Do\u011furuyor"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c7irkin Ebeveynlerin G\u00fczel \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 Do\u011furuyor<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Annelik s\u00fcrecinde \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sevin\u00e7 ve mutluluklar\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra kayg\u0131 ve kayg\u0131lar da ya\u015fan\u0131r. Bir annenin \u00e7ocu\u011funu kuca\u011f\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk anlarda t\u00fcm duygular patlak verir gibidir. Ancak herkes, \u00e7ocu\u011fu do\u011fdu\u011funda tam bir mutluluk hissedecek kadar \u015fansl\u0131 de\u011fildir. Annesinin \u201cg\u00fczel\u201d olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemedi\u011fi bir bebe\u011fin g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fc bazen y\u00fcrekleri da\u011flayabiliyor. Duygular\u0131 derin, uyu\u015fuk bir annenin hikayesi bu.<\/p>\n

\u00c7irkin Ebeveynlerin G\u00fczel \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 Do\u011furmas\u0131 Sosyal Beklentilerin Bask\u0131s\u0131<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"\u00c7irkin<\/p>\n

G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm modern toplumda genellikle \u00e7ok de\u011ferlidir. \u015eanss\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar kolayca kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p dezavantajl\u0131 duruma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcrken, “g\u00fczel” \u00e7ocuklar s\u0131kl\u0131kla bir\u00e7ok iltifat al\u0131r. Bu durum anneler \u00fczerinde b\u00fcy\u00fck bir bask\u0131 olu\u015fturuyor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc bak\u0131\u015flardan ve k\u00f6t\u00fc yorumlardan korumak zorunda olduklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar. Ailenin, arkada\u015flar\u0131n ve toplumun \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fczel ve zeki olmas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcndeki beklentileri anneleri \u00fcz\u00fcyor ve kayg\u0131land\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Genetik ve G\u00fczellik<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"\u00c7irkin<\/p>\n

Genetik, her ki\u015finin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn belirlenmesinde \u00f6nemli bir rol oynar. G\u00f6z rengi, sa\u00e7 rengi, boy ve y\u00fcz \u00f6zellikleri gibi \u00f6zellikler genellikle ebeveynlerden \u00e7ocuklara genler arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla aktar\u0131l\u0131r. Ancak ki\u015finin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc belirleyen tek fakt\u00f6r genetik de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

Danny makale okumay\u0131 sevmesine ra\u011fmen bug\u00fcn size birka\u00e7 kelime s\u00f6ylemek istiyor. D\u00fcnyada bu kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc bir anne yoktur. Ya\u015fl\u0131lar\u0131n s\u0131kl\u0131kla s\u00f6yledi\u011fi bir s\u00f6z vard\u0131r: “Vah\u015fi kaplanlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 yemez.” Bu di\u015fi kaplan, \u00e7ocu\u011funu ak\u0131l almaz derecede ele\u015ftiriyor. Danny yanl\u0131\u015f e\u015fi se\u00e7ti\u011fi i\u00e7in kocas\u0131ndan \u00f6z\u00fcr diledi.<\/p>\n

\u00dcstelik hen\u00fcz \u00fc\u00e7 ayl\u0131kt\u0131. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n g\u00fczel olmaktan \u00e7ok \u00e7irkin olma olas\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 daha y\u00fcksektir ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bunun tersi de ge\u00e7erlidir. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n hen\u00fcz ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na girmemi\u015fken “timsah” oldu\u011funu nas\u0131l anlars\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n

Elbette Kat, gen\u00e7 k\u0131z\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmi\u015f olmal\u0131, de\u011fil mi? Danny d\u00fcnyadaki her kad\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetinin, a\u00e7g\u00f6zl\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn ve \u015fehvetinin ayn\u0131 oldu\u011funu ke\u015ffeder. Matt’in kar\u0131s\u0131 da \u00f6yle. Ayr\u0131ca Matt kar\u0131s\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan aldat\u0131ld\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fcnyada standart olarak V \u015feklinde y\u00fcze ve kum saati fig\u00fcr\u00fcne sahip bir k\u0131zdan ho\u015flanmayan bir erkek var m\u0131? Matt sadece g\u00fczelli\u011fi seven bir insan. Matt’in g\u00fczel bir kad\u0131n se\u00e7me arzusunda kusuru yok.<\/p>\n

Daha basit bir ifadeyle Matt zengin bir ailede do\u011fdu. Matt’in babas\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fen bir yabanc\u0131 \u015farap i\u015fi var, bu y\u00fczden b\u00fct\u00fcn aile \u00e7ok iyi ya\u015f\u0131yor. Ayr\u0131ca Matt \u00e7ekici ve uzun boylu. Belki de Matt’in \u00e7ekici ve stil sahibi k\u0131zlara ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n nedeni budur.<\/p>\n

A\u015fk yolculuklar\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda Matt, Kat’e u\u011frad\u0131. Koreli bir aktrisinkine benzeyen nazik ve saf g\u00fczelli\u011fi Matt’in dikkatini \u00e7ekti. Kat, y\u00fcksek burun \u00e7izgisi, yatay ka\u015flar\u0131 ve e\u015fit cilt tonuyla kar\u015f\u0131daki ki\u015finin g\u00f6zlerini kendine \u00e7ekiyor.<\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131ca Matt’in en iyi arkada\u015f\u0131 ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta onu kimin terk edece\u011fini g\u00f6rmek i\u00e7in onunla bir iddiaya girdi. Matt, her k\u0131z\u0131n a\u015f\u0131k olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in her t\u00fcrl\u00fc zehirli numaray\u0131, romantik hediyeleri ve nazik s\u00f6zleri kullanmak zorundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Kat, Matt’e a\u015f\u0131k olduklar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundan beri beslenme bak\u0131m\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00e7ok g\u00fczel olmak i\u00e7in d\u00fczenli olarak do\u011fal maskeler kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi. “Evrimin felaketi, k\u0131zlar\u0131n estetik ameliyatlarla g\u00fczelle\u015ftirilmesidir.” Kat herkese anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Matt’in g\u00fczel ve zeki sevgilisi “hava savunma” sahnesini h\u0131zla bozdu. Matt, Matt’in ailesinin \u00f6zel \u015farap i\u015fini \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki iki y\u0131l i\u00e7inde Laos’a kadar geni\u015fletebilmek i\u00e7in yak\u0131nda bir bebek sahibi olmak istiyor.<\/p>\n

D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre sonra Kat hamile kald\u0131. Matt terfi etmek \u00fczereyken kar\u0131s\u0131yla ilgilenerek vakit ge\u00e7irmek i\u00e7in arkada\u015flar\u0131yla b\u00fct\u00fcn gece ma\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 atlad\u0131. \u00d6te yandan Kat, hamileli\u011fi s\u0131ras\u0131nda zay\u0131f kalmas\u0131ndan duydu\u011fu endi\u015feyi dile getirdi.<\/p>\n

Matt’in kar\u0131s\u0131 ge\u00e7en y\u0131l\u0131n sonlar\u0131nda do\u011fum yapt\u0131, doktor ona k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 verince Matt \u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bir hata m\u0131 oldu? Y\u00fcksek, kafatas\u0131 \u015feklinde aln\u0131, d\u00fcz burnu, kal\u0131n dudaklar\u0131 ve koyu tenli \u00e7ocu\u011fa bakt\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Matt’in k\u0131z\u0131 bir y\u0131ld\u0131r hala o \u00e7irkin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcme sahipti. Matt’in k\u0131z\u0131 insanlar onu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce utanga\u00e7 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyordu. \u0130\u00e7lerinden ele\u015ftiriyorlar ama bunu y\u00fcksek sesle dile getirmiyorlar.<\/p>\n

Matt’in kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7me hakk\u0131 olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen Matt \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 se\u00e7emiyor. Matt’in k\u0131z\u0131 onun kan\u0131n\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131. Matt k\u0131z\u0131na zarar verdi. Matt bana ger\u00e7ekten g\u00fczel bir anneyi onun m\u00fckemmel g\u00fczelli\u011finden biraz keyif alay\u0131m diye vermedi.<\/p>\n

Matt k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 sevdi\u011fi i\u00e7in kar\u0131s\u0131ndan nefret ediyor. Matt o zamandan beri hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na u\u011frad\u0131 ve asla o yapay g\u00fczel e\u015fe y\u00f6nelmedi. Kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7irkin y\u00fcz\u00fc uyurken bile Matt’in akl\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131km\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Genetik \u00c7e\u015fitlilik<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"\u00c7irkin<\/p>\n

Kal\u0131t\u0131m\u0131n temel birimi olan genler, g\u00fczellik de dahil olmak \u00fczere fiziksel \u00f6zelliklerin belirlenmesinden sorumludur. Her bireyin ebeveynlerinden miras kalan benzersiz bir gen dizisi vard\u0131r ve her iki ebeveynin genlerinin birle\u015ftirilmesiyle farkl\u0131 \u00f6zellikler yarat\u0131lacakt\u0131r. Ancak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynlerinin olumlu \u00f6zelliklerini ta\u015f\u0131yaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6ng\u00f6rmek her zaman m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

Her birey, her iki ebeveynden de bir dizi gen al\u0131r ve bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 rastgeledir. Bu, genlerin bir\u00e7ok farkl\u0131 \u015fekilde birle\u015ferek farkl\u0131 fiziksel \u00f6zellikler yaratabilece\u011fi anlam\u0131na gelir. Ebeveynler yak\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131 olmasa bile, genlerin rastgele bir kombinasyonu, yavrularda \u00e7ekici fiziksel \u00f6zellikler \u00fcretebilir.<\/p>\n

\u00c7evrenin Etkisi<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"\u00c7irkin<\/p>\n

Geneti\u011fin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra ya\u015fan\u0131lan \u00e7evre de insan\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc etkiler. Beslenme, ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131 ve ya\u015fam tarz\u0131n\u0131n t\u00fcm\u00fc v\u00fccut geli\u015fimini ve g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc etkileyebilir. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ortamda, besleyici bir diyetle ve iyi bak\u0131larak b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bir \u00e7ocuk, kapsaml\u0131 bir \u015fekilde geli\u015fme ve daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olma f\u0131rsat\u0131na sahip olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

G\u00fczellik ayn\u0131 zamanda kendinize nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za da ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130nsanda “g\u00fczellik” genleri vard\u0131r ama sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 korumad\u0131k\u00e7a o g\u00fczellik korunmaz. Tam tersine “k\u00f6t\u00fc” genler olsa bile g\u00fczellik yine de en iyi \u015fekilde ifade edilebilir.<\/p>\n

Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla g\u00fczel bir \u00e7ocuk do\u011furmak sadece geneti\u011fe de\u011fil ayn\u0131 zamanda ebeveynlerin kendilerine nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131na ve nas\u0131l ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131na da ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Bu, g\u00fczelli\u011fin genetikten \u00e7ok daha fazla fakt\u00f6re ba\u011fl\u0131 oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor. Ayr\u0131ca bu, g\u00fczellik alg\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve bunu g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda nas\u0131l koruyup geli\u015ftirebilece\u011fimizi geli\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n

Sonu\u00e7land\u0131rmak<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u015fu soru ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor: “E\u011fer \u00e7irkin ebeveynler g\u00fczel \u00e7ocuklar do\u011furursa, g\u00fczellik genetikse?” a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a anlat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u0130nsan\u0131n g\u00fczelli\u011fi sadece genetikten kaynaklanmaz, bir\u00e7ok farkl\u0131 fakt\u00f6re de ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r ve ki\u015fisel bak\u0131m, her bireyin g\u00fczelli\u011fini koruman\u0131n gerekli bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Ek olarak bu, g\u00fczelli\u011fe nas\u0131l de\u011fer verdi\u011fimizi ve onu g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famlar\u0131m\u0131z boyunca nas\u0131l yarat\u0131p koruyabilece\u011fimizi daha iyi anlamam\u0131za yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan yeni bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n

Danny bu itiraflar\u0131 erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na e\u015f se\u00e7erken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeleri gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlatmak i\u00e7in yaz\u0131yor. Danny ayr\u0131ca ge\u00e7ici olarak kapat\u0131lan g\u00fczelli\u011fin daha sonra \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan kullan\u0131lmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da k\u0131zlara bildirmek istedi. Bu nedenle, e\u011fer biri g\u00fczel \u00e7ocuklara sahip olmak istiyorsa, g\u00fczel bir e\u015f veya koca se\u00e7melidir.<\/p>\n

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\u00c7irkin Ebeveynlerin G\u00fczel \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 Do\u011furuyor Annelik s\u00fcrecinde \u00e7o\u011fu zaman sevin\u00e7 ve mutluluklar\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra kayg\u0131 ve kayg\u0131lar da ya\u015fan\u0131r. Bir annenin \u00e7ocu\u011funu kuca\u011f\u0131na ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk anlarda t\u00fcm duygular patlak verir gibidir. Ancak herkes, \u00e7ocu\u011fu do\u011fdu\u011funda …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":6361,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[111],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6360","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-tam-tu-ve-dep"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6360","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6360"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6360\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6362,"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6360\/revisions\/6362"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6361"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6360"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6360"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wilitr.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6360"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}